Love Life And Married Life

What exactly does it mean by a love life? Is it a life in which you love someone? Is it a lifestyle? Or is it something else? Now, many people will have different meanings of a love life, but me? I have something very different. For me it isn’t just a lifestyle, it is a state of being. Being in love, to be precise, to feel loved. Generally, people perceive love life to be only between couples, but for me, love life can be with any person you love. It can be with your mom, with your family, friends, name it and if there is some kind of love, it is a love life. Don’t confuse this love with the love you are thinking of. I mean connection, a bond, a strong bond. If there is a bond, there is love. No bond can survive if you don’t feel something for the other person, this feeling is love. Love for the person you are with.

         Now, you might think that love life and married life are the same, let me tell you, you are utterly mistaken, my friend, truly and utterly mistaken. Love life can be with someone you have a bond with, but married life is something you share. Married life is something that you look for at the end of the day. It is something that gives you the strength you need to survive. Yes, you can look forward to meeting your kids or parents or family or anyone else for that matter, but there are things that can be shared only with that special someone. That special someone you tell everything to, no matter what it is. That special someone you come home to and let them know how your day was and get to know how their day was. This married life that I’m talking about is not only for married couples, it can be said for every couple living together or not. Married life is not only about loving and compromises it is also about caring, romance, small fights, and then the apologies that make everything right again. Of course, there are things that take much more time than they should, but in the end, if everything is right, it gets sorted, all you have to do is give it time. The moments together are what make a life, a married life.

      Now coming to the main similarity of both married life and love life. Let me ask you what it is. So what, according to you, is the similarity between a love life and a married life? What’s your answer and please don’t tell me it’s love, cuz it’s not. Yeah, it’s not! Shocked? I’d be too if someone told me something different, but it’s not love. I mean, sure it might be one of the many similarities, but it’s not the main similarity. The answer is…*drumroll* the feelings for each other. Now, I know what you are thinking how is your answer different? It is. Trust me, it is. Here, feelings don’t necessarily mean love. It can be many things. We are humans with millions of emotions and feelings (that is what makes things a little complicated if you ask me, but that story is to be left for some other time) that drive us. But this feeling is not to love alone, it includes a bit of spice added with care and a bag full of craziness. This feeling is the main similarity between love life and married life.

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